Fitness for Life

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The Journey Never Ends

30 begins the slow decline to death” 

Was the anthem that surrounded me during my 20’s. My instructors, employers, friends, training partners, and coworkers sang it frequently, like a chant reminding me my days where numbered. As I looked to those people in the martial arts that I knew at that time over 30, it was disappointing. Training was limited by any number of “age” ailments. Shoulders, knees, back, neck, weight etc. I was growing older, just wait, they said… As a mom with 2 young children, I was working full time and barely finding time to work out myself…I couldn’t even imagine how disappointing my future would be.

As I entered my later 20’s I was working 50-80 hours a week teaching martial arts and running a martial arts school. I found time to hit the gym occasionally – but my martial arts training had dwindled down to only our instructors class that was geared specifically to what we where going to teach the next day, not challenging me to the next level. I was a 3rd degree black belt,  I had adapted the belief in my head that this was it..becoming a Master (my next rank in that system) would require learning a new form or two – every few years. I looked at the instructors around me who now learned via book or video and felt my martial arts training had come to an end.

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First Half Marathon- Never thought I could

Then we opened our own school. I began to fantasize that maybe I could train again. I wasn’t sure how but I wanted to learn Brazilian JuJitsu so badly. I also really wanted to become certified in Krav Maga, and after watching a season of Master Toddy’s FIght girls, I was mesmerized by Muay Thai.

I started gymnastics with my demonstration team, I was 28 now… only a couple years left to get all the things I had always wanted in before my body fell apart right? Then 3 months after I started gymnastics I broke my arm badly. It required 3 surgeries to put it back together and I was out of work for 3 months. During that time, so may people said to me “What were you thinking” “Don’t you think you are a little old for that stuff” “I hope this taught you, its time to stop”. I couldn’t help but agree and think they where right.

I settled, at that point  I reserved myself to the fact that this was the best I could get. Go to the gym a couple times a week and hope for the best. But I would never again have any new accomplishments. At that point I gained 10 pds.

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The End, I thought.

Then, later that year, a business friend of mine posted on Facebook about having a mentor. I couldn’t help but think of someone I had taken some seminars from, He really “walked the walk” and if I could choose anyone in the world to learn from he was the man.

It was then I joined Martial Arts For Excellence, with Master Paul Garcia. I was excited to learn how to run a great martial arts school, attract more students, and have financial success.

The thing is, I didn’t get a business seminar. The very first event we attended i was blown away at these very successful school owners – they were all in amazing shape!!! Most of them where not only over 40, some where over 50. When the instructors hit the training matt, so did they.

Master Garcia taught us then, we had to lead from the front. That we had no business teaching martial arts if we were not training at least 3x a week..IN MARTIAL ARTS (we also should be working out for cardio and weights). Not stuff you already know he said, go learn new things. Be the best you can be for your students. Fall back in love with martial arts.

I felt like it  was a dream come true, hadn’t I started in the martial arts and fitness because it was my passion? I started teaching so I COULD train more.

My arm was still healing so at that point I was limited to Monday training. Then a Jujitsu class opened up on Fridays. It was so exciting to start learning new things again!

THEN I TURNED 30, and my world fell apart just like everyone said….the end.

NOT

Master Garcia had taught that it only gets better, and I saw living proof! I watched a 44 year old out kick an 18 year old. I watched those who had been training for years, humble themselves and get certified in Krav Maga. My thinking changed, my beliefs changed, my input changed, and so did my results. I have accomplished more in the 3 years since I turned 30 then I did in ALL of my 20’s. I could totally kick my 20something year olds butt.

Since then I have

lost 15pds

Got my Krav Maga certification 1,2,&3

Got my first 3 stripes on my white belt in Brazilian JuJitsu

Certified in Trans Muay Thai

Got my White Mongoul in Muay Thai

Got my 4th degree black belt

I Run more,

Lift more,

I am Faster,

I Kick higher

become and inspiration to my children

….and much much more

With 2014 here, as you set your goals for health and fitness. Don’t let societies beliefs hold you back. Set goals, then find the coaches that can get you there. Don’t settle, get off the sidelines of life and play!

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Stretch your limits

10 thoughts on “Fitness for Life

  1. Kevin

    When I joined your school in November 2012 I was the heaviest I’d ever been at 190 lbs. Maybe not heavy for some people but i felt fat and un attractive. I had stopped setting goals and was complacent. Seeing the passion you and Mr.Buzzell have has gotten the drive back for me. I want to get better in all aspects and I’ve come a long way. Watching you guys practice what you preach is very inspiring for me and im sure many others think so as well. The love you guys have for what you do shows and makes a huge difference. The more goals you guys achieve rubs off on the rest of us. Its infectious! Thank you so much for sharing this and doing what you do.

    1. Kevin,
      Thanks for sharing this! I hope this blog, A life Worth Living, inspires others like you to not settle, but strive for those goals in life. Wether they be personal, fitness, health, financial, career, relationship. You are right about our passion, I really want to see people have the excitement for life that we have!

  2. Joanna

    Very inspiring first personal entry! I really appreciate you taking the time to use your experiences to help motivate others in achieving their goals for healthy, happy, fulfilled lives. Happy New Year!

  3. Ma’am… Love this. Thanks for putting more of your story out there.

    There are so many martial arts schools out there but yours stands out because of the enthusiasm and professionalism you bring to your craft. It spreads to your staff, and it spreads to your students. It’s funny….when I walk into class, everyone is so courteous and willing to help each other, it’s almost as if “everyone” is on staff.

    That started with you.

    1. Thanks Brian,
      I appreciate the feedback. I told my team I wanted us to be contagious, like the flu. Its great to hear the experience is just that. The kind of community you won’t find anywhere else.

  4. I love this story and I thank you for sharing it. You are an inspiration to all women. I am in awe of all that you have done and for not letting anyone stop you. You reached for your goals and continue to do and that’s awesome!

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